Death of a Spouse is a new blog that has been started by someone who has recently lost his wife. It’s an attempt to deal constructively with his own grief while actually helping other people.
It aims to provide information and to convey what this person has learned, which often amounts to unanticipated problems he is trying to solve.
The author, whom I know, lives in quite a conservative world. I don’t think now is the time to try to change that. We have discussed whether the blog is heteronormative. That his first reaction was “What’s that?” might give you an idea of where he is from. I don’t think “spouse” is heteronormative, since it seems to me to have been effectively co-opted.
In fact, some people might find it a useful resource, or some of us might have some good ideas of how to make it more so. It’s very new and so could probably go in all sorts of different ways.
So have a look if you are interested.